Welcome to The Miss Matrix Academy. D&s Female Led Relationships

Education * Exploration * Opportunity

What's it all about ..

Are you "Good Boy" material?  TAKE THE QUIZ to find out.

We provide EDUCATION, EXPLORATION, and PURSUIT of the HAPPINESS of a D&s Truelife FLR. The Trainer Dommes are Prime-Age Dominant Women, all of whom seek Truelife D&s FLRs - both tethered and live-in - they form the Academy Domme Corps Faculty. The image above depicts the classic cycle for what we advocate, teach, and promote. Worldwide !

The other half of the equation is the adult male (typically 35 and older) whose inner compass leans to a need for Strong Feminine Authority- hence, an FLR, that is, a Female Led Relationship.   Such males come from all walks of life and levels of education.  

Truelife D&s FLRs are intended for the long term, long haul of remaining life!   

Fine Women who have a natural need to lead and control - and males who need it.   Refer to the image of the Basic Cycle of TrueLife.

Many are married, which is quite okay, and the older male is often the better one - because he knows his place.  The male may have "played" before and even paid for kink sessions, but now he is ready for the reality of Long TermTruelife D&s FLRs, where the connection is a personal bond for the long haul of remaining life - or at least to learn about them.   

All initial education and training is done by confidential identity and email.  Prime-age dominant women are 40 and up, blessed with the wisdom of life experiences. Good women don't get older, they just get better.  

Still not sure?  TAKE THE QUIZ.


Is this for everyone ?

No, it is not.    BDSM/D&s  has different meanings for different folks.  

For some it is just "play".  For others  it is sexual perversion that drives a male to pay for "scenes" of their choosing, that is, "to be done" as they request, they are the customer or "john" and the woman is the "service provider". 

For "play", the relationships is one of  "playmates", and "money" for the latter.  By contrast, in a Truelife D&s FLR, there is a sense of belonging, and the relationship is a personal bond. D&s activities are truly acts of love and devotion, building on the boy's D&sDNA for the benefit of all.  

Like the Marines, we are looking for "a few good boys".  Maybe just like you.   TAKE THE QUIZ?

Semper Fem,  

Miss Matrix


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About those "D&S DNA CODES"

The Codes, what are they?

The codes draw a road map of your inner core, deep down submissive traits, tendencies, and needs.  We have recognized 10 basic traits, each identified with a single digit (0 thru 9). 

When ranked greatest to least from left to right, the first nine form your code.  Pictures and word descriptions to help you and your little friend determine your core needs - the ones that gnaw at you and just won't go away.  


Code "0" The Bondage Boy

The Bondage Boy - needs the security of Bondage.   Yes, the image is a girl, but don't you just wish it was you !  

Never is the Bondage Boy so free, as when he is "placed on the hook". 

Some say, "I have never experienced a greater freedom than what I feel on the hook and totally vulnerable to the firm but loving control of my OwnerDomme"


Code "1" The Bad Boy

The Bad Boy - not really bad, just needs to "feel" her authority. Like the "Bondage Boy", he envies and identifies with any one being disciplined.   For the Bad Boy, punishment is his redemption.  

Can a "bad boy" be a "Good boy" both and at the same time ?  

Myabe you should TAKE THE QUIZ. 


Code "2" The Sissy Boy

The Sissy Boy - softness and femininity are seen in his dress and mannerisms.  He seeks to honor women by emulating them. 

Soft is the Sissy Boy. 


Code "3" The OSODD Boy

The OSODD Boy -  a slave to his own desires .. for more and more.  The  more he gets, the more he needs.Miss Matrix coined the phrase and developed the OSODD Training Regimen. .


Code "4" The Mommie's Boy

 The Mommie's Boy - he yearns for those apron strings, but  the nipple is more than just symbolic.  They represent the Magic Elixir of eternal youth. 


Code "5" The Bitch Dog Boy

The Bitch Dog Boy - its about loyalty, obedience, and much more .. gives rise to "The Bitch Dog Position".  Yes, it does mean different things to different boys .. and Dommes.  

Down boy, DOWN !


Code "6" The Black Addict Boy

The Black Addict Boy - is addicted to Black FemPower for many reasons, the Power, the Taboo, the Historical juxtaposition, the racial guilt, and the screaming throbbing of his little friend.   He transfers the "penis envy" of a white boy for the Black Stud to the Black Domme, and for good reason.  Obeah, could this be you ? 


Code "7" The Chastity Boy

The Chastity Boy -  needs his sex locked away from his own abuse - the making of a cuckold.   He loves to feel his the smallness of his little friend thrusting and struggling against the restraint.   Locked Chastity makes everything better for this boy.


Code "8" The House Boy

The House Boy  - he honors the glory of womanhood by doing the work of the woman of yesteryear.  If only he could be Mr. Clever scrubbing the floor with Beaver's mother, Mrs Clever standing over him.    

The House Boy yearns to be a subhusband bride !


Code "9" The Slut Boy

The Slut boy - totally guided by his need for sex, any sex.  He is the classic FFCS (Forced Fem Cock Sucker).   

What else can he be called ?

Needs the harsh control of an Owner. 


Summary of D&sDNA Code

The Code is  9 digits, we do not list the last or least trait of the ten types.  Thus a code will look like 756-103-428 or 943-780-123, etc., etc.   Consult your little friend down south as you review each code. 

For Truelife Dommes, the Code is a statement of preferences. 

Have you TAKEN THE QUIZ yet ?


About the Academy curriculum

Orientation for New Dommes


Covers Academy confidentiality and philosophies - and brings the new Domme Corps member up to speed as SHE prepares to teach, train, select, take and use.  

She seeks an FLR - tethered or live-in.

Might you, lady, be a good candidate for the Domme Corps, yourself?

Review the "Good boy" QUIZ, and see if you identify with "dominant woman" frequently referenced in the Quiz.     If so, you are.   Email Miss Matrix with your interest at YesMissMatrix@yahoo.com.      


Orientation for New Boys


Covers your new confidential identity, name, number, and new email address.

  1. 1.01 Stripping the Boy
  2. 1.02 Harnessing the Boy
  3. 1.03 Finding your Profile
  4.         A. D&sDNA Code
  5.         B. Exposure
  6.         C. Dog Tags
  7.         D. Collarspace 
  8.         E. Confession

Dog Tags become your icon image in the Academy.   Exposure provides the basic text of your Profile.


Trainer Domme Assignment


This is an exciting time, you are "Fresh Meat" on the Auction Block - and women bid on you to become your Trainer Domme.    Although she bids, and Miss Matrix determines the winning bid, both boy and Trainer Domme must accept the assignment and either can opt out. 

It is a bit like going to the SPCA pound and picking out a new pet, won't work unless there seems to be mutual appeal.   If not we try again.


Starter Level

Education, primarily.  Discuss the basic elements of FLR D& with your Trainer Domme.  More than 20 lessons to learn about D&s, learn about yourself, and learn about your Trainer Domme.   On completion, boy and Trainer Domme decide if he will enter the Transition Level.  Otherwise, each looks for a new assignment.    Sample lessons appear in the Appendix section.

Current Plan as of 03/05/2018 

Lessons are dispensed by the Trainer Domme.  The lessons are EDUCATION and the basis of a Training Dialog that will explore the boy's inner core, if not his very soul, bared to a Woman looking for a boy to own and use. 

  1. ST-01 E&O Requirements 
  2. ST-02 Submale's D&s History
  3. ST-03 The Bondage Boy (0)
  4. ST-04 The Bad Boy (code 1)
  5. ST-05 The Sissy Boy (code 2)
  6. ST-06 The OSODD Boy (3)
  7. ST-07 The Mommie's Boy ( 4) 
  8. ST-08 The Bitch Dog Boy ( 5)
  9. ST-09 The BlackAddict Boy(6)
  10. ST-10 The Chastity Boy ( 7)
  11. ST-11 The Houseboy (code 8)
  12. ST-12 The Slut Boy (code 9)
  13. ST-13 Erotic Shopping 
  14. ST-14 Learning to Hunt 
  15. ST-15 Worship and Oath 
  16. ST-16 The D&s REALationship 
  17. ST-17 The Vacuum of Power
  18. ST-18 Review/Graduation Gift
  19. ST-19 Decision Time  
  20. ST-20 Tuition Renewal 


Transition Level

Focus is on the formation of an FLR. The lessons hone in on the actuality of an FLR between the boy and his Trainer Domme.  Lessons and topics become more personalized, as both boy and Trainer Domme contemplate formation of a Truelife D&s FLR - where the boy is collared and owned - tethered at first, live-in later if feasible.   If not formed, boy returns to the Auction Block.

You and your Starter Level Trainer Domme have agreed to enter the Transition Loop to see if an FLR might be in the works for the two of you.    It may or may not happen, but we will all give it our best effort. 

  1. TL-01 The Transition Loop 
  2. TL-02 Bondage-Body & Mind 
  3. TL-03 Discipline for the boy 
  4. TL-04 Male Chastity in an FLR 
  5. TL-05 Draining the boy            
  6. TL-06 Ball Stretching
  7. TL-07 The Power of OSODD
  8. TL-08 The Basic Cuckold
  9. TL-09  A Boy may Lie, but  ...
  10. TL-10  Meaning of Good boy
  11. TL-11  Soft is the Sissy Boy        
  12. TL-12  The Magic Elixir 
  13. TL-13  The Punishment Kit       
  14. TL-14  Training Gear     
  15. TL-15  Erotic Shopping 
  16. TL-16  The D&s REALationship 
  17. TL-17  The Colony House
  18. TL-18   Feminine Authority
  19. TL-19  The D&s Contract            
  20. TL-20  The Tethering Decision      


The FLR Level

Now, the focus is on deepening the FLR just formed.      Lessons include the 28 part OSODD Series - secrets revealed, and the boy prepared.  Also included is a 14 part "First IP (In Person) Series.  Additional lessons dig ever deeper into the boy's mind and inner core as we strive to make him the best boy possible.   

Such a boy has only his own deepest, darkest desires to fear.

The FLR Level - Collared and Owned, Tethered or Live-in. This is the result of  a successful Transition.  Our purpose now is to deepen and solidify the new  FLR. Your DC - your Owner Domme - will select from among the FLR lessons listed below, choosing them in whatever order she feels best benefits the FLR.   

 These are not  scripts to be recited word for word or action for action. They are accounts of what has worked well for others. 

  1. FLR-01 Collared and Tethered
  2. FLR-02 Whipping the boy 
  3. FLR-03 The Humbler
  4. FLR-04 Discipline&Punsh'mnt
  5. FLR-05 IP and Stark Realities
  6. FLR-06 Mounting your Boy
  7. FLR-07 A Love Story
  8. FLR-08 Prepping for OSODD
  9. FLR-09 The Golden Moment
  10. FLR-10 Fifth Day the Sweetest
  11. FLR 11-38 The OSODD Series 
  12. FLR-39 The Shampoo Boy
  13. FLR-40 Owning his Backdoor
  14. FLR 41-54 The 14part IP Series 
  15. FLR-55 The Dildo was Real,pt1
  16. FLR-56 The Dildo was Real,pt2
  17. FLR-57 Ancient Amazonia, pt1
  18. FLR-58 Ancient Amazonia,pt2 
  19. FLR-59 A Fine Tuned Boy
  20. (more lessons to be added)



About these Dog Tags

Dog Tags are an essential art of your training and "being".  They will play a big role in your first IP (In Person) meeting.   SHE will use them as a means of your identification and she will take one of them as a 'trophy". 

Thus you are to buy two dog tags, imprinted with your new name and number.   Petco and Petsmart stores have kiosks where you can do it yourself, and they can be ordered online from many vendors.  Color and shape are your choices.  Most are roughly 1"x 2" more or less.  Buy a 36" inch section of beaded breakaway chain, such as is used for overhead closet lights.   A loop of 36" will allow 18" of "reach" which may be required  with one end attached to your cock ring!     View the images here in the Roster for ideas.  


When you have them, take a picture, showing both tags and part of the chain.   Try to do it  so that they can be read.  Send to Miss Matrix as a 'jpeg" if by attachment or embedded in your email message.  Miss Matrix will edit the image for size and then post it for you. you. 

10002 darla* MO 68M GTD.Dec31 D&sDNA.Code.893-241-570 Owned by Lady Athena

68 year old retired/married WM, tethered and devoted to Lady Athena. Retired Military and State employee, living near the St Louis Mo area. Enrolled in Academy 2012, tutored by Miss Matrix, taken by Lady Athena of Nevada.  Academy Graduate with a Full Tethering to Lady Athena of Nevada. Unofficial ambassador for the Academy and what is stands for.  


10127 karen* MO 65S GTD.May15,2019 D&sDNA.Code.152.34?.??? Owned by Lady Damali

Boy will provide information limited to 350 characters and spaces, explained repeatedly in the Auction Block Section.


10167 kimmie* NYC 65S GTD.Aug06 D&sDNA.Code.235.41?.??? Temp Assigned to Miss Matrix

Boy will provide information limited to 350 characters and spaces, explained repeatedly in the Auction Block Section.


10191 sky* Australia 36S GTD.Oct31. D&sDNA.Code.351.762.908 Assigned to Lady Suzie


Returning to the Meat Market,  loop, sky* has learned a lot about the expectation of a FLR and is now even more eager to find a Goddess who finds him worthy of their worship.  


10211 april AR 50S ....... GTD.Nov15 D&sDNA.Code.627.834.951 Assigned to Goddess Cerru


Single white male, in the Hot Springs, AR area.  Enrolled here on 06/30/17,  to learn and understand more about true life FLR’s and my submission, in hopes of finding a Truelife Domina that will take me as her full time boy. Began with Miss Matrix and then assigned to Goddess Cerru, who took me on 08/14/17, presently working on my Transition 


10260 addison* TN 52S GTD.Dec10 D&sDNA.Code.435.710.982 Assigned to Mistress Abigail


Boy will provide information limited to 350 characters and spaces, explained repeatedly in the Auction Block Section.


10266 layla UK . 33S GTD.Aug30 D&sDNA.Code.463.21?.??? Assigned to Lady Reyna


Boy will provide information limited to 350 characters and spaces, explained repeatedly in the Auction Block Section.


10271 jasmine* VA 49S GTD.Aug03 D&sDNA.Code.621.53?.??? Assigned to Mistress Marsa


Boy will provide information limited to 350 characters and spaces, explained repeatedly in the Auction Block Section.



10275 nina* Australia 57M GTD.Nov15 D&sDNA.Code.018.375.249 Assigned to Lady Suzie


Boy will provide information limited to 350 characters and spaces, explained repeatedly in the Auction Block Section.


10281michelle AU 51M GTD.Nov20 D&sDNA.Code.135 042 268 Assigned to Lady Suzie


Over time I have realised that women are really rather superior and I need to learn how to be a better sub-male, in the hope of finding a Domme to serve.

I believe my D&s DNA code to be 135 042 968 because I yearn for a woman dominants and to please her, in whatever ways she instructs and requires. 


10293 sparkle USA 55S GTD.Dec18/2019 D&sDNA.Code.134.56?.???. Assigned to Lady Reyna


Boy will provide information limited to 350 characters and spaces, explained repeatedly in the Auction Block Section.


10226 susie* 65S NC GTD.Dec31,2019 Tethered and Transitioning to Live-In.

10300 gail Delaware 55M GTD.Jan31/2019 D&sDNA.Code.???.???.??? Reserved for Ms Bella


Boy will provide information limited to 350 characters and spaces, explained repeatedly in the Auction Block Section.


10308 shelia Belgium 62S GTD.Feb14/2019 D&sDNA.Code.321.405.768 Reserved for Lady Reyna

Boy will provide information limited to 350 characters and spaces, explained repeatedly in the Auction Block Section.


10312 tasha UK 29S GTD.Feb28/2019 D&sDNA.Code.473290851 Assigned to Lady Reyna



10312 tasha UK, 29, single, Feb 28th 2019, 5.9, 13stone , student.

I’m a clever, pretty boy, but also a shy beta, who craves a strong Alpha star to orbit. I know I could be a fun and useful sub. I am here in order to learn more about real world FLR’s, of course my ultimate goal is to enter one and possibly even a WLM. 


10312 tasha UK, 29, single, Feb 28th 2019, 5.9, 13, student.

I’m a clever, pretty boy, but also a shy beta, who craves a strong Alpha star to orbit. I know I could be a fun and useful sub. I am here in order to learn more about real world FLR’s, of course my ultimate goal is to enter one and possibly even a WLM. 



10314 pilla Sweden 60M GTD.Apr30,2019 D&sDNA.Code.513.609.784 TETHERED to Lady Reyna

I am about 60 years old.  I work with software development. I am here to learn about FLR and hopefully meet a Domme. I think I need a Domme.  

10315 julie Ottawa 55S GTD.Jul02/2020 D&sDNA.Code Assigned to Lady Reyna



My name is Julie am in my mid 50s, 6'1 and 200 pounds. i live in Ottawa, Ontario, Canada. i am single. I work for one of those huge multinational engineering firms where i manage a department in specialty studies. I accept the Superiority and Supremacy of Woman and wish to learn the ways of servitude,worship and respect. 



10318 jamie 55S AZ GTD.Jul31 D&sDNA.Code.630-845-791. Placed in Detention - AWOL


  •  55 Single mixed male,  

I will always put Supreme Goddess Cerru FIRST in my life

I will Openly and Fully communicate my heart and soul to Her.

Goddess Cerru is the one who matters Most to me.

Goddess Cerru will be my Number One Priority from now on.

with Love, Your boy, jamie10318

10319 allie* 60M MA GTD.Sep30 D&sDNA.Code,???.???.??? Available for BID


Separated/ 6' 1"/ 225

This sub is seeking the guidance

Of a true Domme to take me

From the light of existence

To the delicious darkness submission.  


10321 miranda 60MCA GTD.Jun12,2019 D&sDNA.Code.683-427-150 Available for BID

 My name is miranda,.  I live in cupertino,  California.  I am 66 but am in very good shape.  I work out, eat healthy and do yoga.  I weigh 145 lbs, am 5 ft 7 inches tall.  I work as a part time college teacher.  I am married.  Our marriage is not going well.  Also, last child will be leaving for college in 16 months.  At that time or before I will probably get divorced and seek a live in FLR.  I love love black women.  I love any form of body worship.  I love to cook and clean.  I'm not joking.  I will have a pretty good retirement income. 


10322 marie 49S MI GTD.Aug15 (Inneeddiscipline) D&sDNA.Code 415.3 Available for BID

 I do Construction either behind the desk or tool belt on, also very smart. I’m biker, rocker I’m 6’3” 185 ish I do have tatts and a smart ass... I’m an alpha male in public so mine will never have to worry about her safety..  But in all that I’m a lil boy that needs discipline and rules.. and wants someone fun loving and strict.. 



APPENDIX - Selected Lesson Excerpts

Excerpts from ST-04 "The Bad Boy"

He' not evil, he just needs to "feel" her authority.

Excerpts from TL-10 "The Meaning of Good Boy"

Are you "Good boy" material?


Excerpts from FLR Lessons OSODD and First IP Series

FLR Lessons deepen the bond and become part of an incredible love story.

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