Building a community of Female Led Relationships - Tethered and Live-in.
If you are interested in becoming a member of the Academy Domme Corps, contact Miss Matrix at YesMissMatrix@yahoo.com
Learn the basics of Truelife D&s - train screened boys via email and website for his EDUCATION, and then select those boys with whom you wish to EXPLORE the formation of an FLR. FLRs cannot be purchased or arranged, they must develop - and we provide a fertile environment for that to happen ! FLRs can be Tethered or Live-in. Tethered at first and can stay and flourish that way. Total confidentiality for everyone in the First Level, the EDUCATION (or Starter Level).
We have an Interactive Forum for enrolled participants to faciliate the Program - Profiles, Stables, Meat Market, Messaging, Lesson Curriculum, etc. You may look at it now if you wish. AcademyStables.4.MissMatrix.com
The lesson curriculum is based on Miss Matrix's Truelife D&s philosophies.
For this male, we offer EDUCATION, EXPLORATION, and OPPORTUNITY.
Learn from and with the Academy Domme Corps of Trainer Dommes, all of whom seek FLRs - Tethered and live-in. It all starts with confidential email and website discussion of Miss Matrix's D&s philosophies - more than 100 lessons to inform, expose, and jump-start your deep-rooted passions, needs, and tendencies. It can lead to IP (In Person) and Live-in - or it can stay basically confidential cyber and email if that is best for you. Married is okay, and the older boy is often the better boy.
You need to REGISTER and create your profile there. This is where your profile (edited by you) and your Trainer Domme's stable will be shown. It is also where all DC profiles will be found. You will be able to message anyone else on the Forum.- on that platform! Register with your Academy ID. You will not be able to participate without being in the Forum. AcademyStables.4.MissMatrix.com <<<<<<< to the Forum ! <<<<<
Your profile will be in the FORUM when you create it. You will edit it. Your image or Avatar will be your DOG TAG image.
The Trainers choose or BID for unassigned boys to add to their training stables. She sets the pace and agenda, but the training at first centers on discussion of D&s Lessons that help both to better explore the boy. Either can opt out of the assignment. The ultimate goal of an assignment is an FLR, tethered, if not live-in.
This is where you need to be, physically and mentally, and YOU KNOW IT. You yearn for Strong Feminine Authority, Yearning to serve, to belong, and to be find release for your most perverted thoughts and inner urgings.
How to enroll ? Click on the ENROLLMENT tab at the top of the Home Page. Enrollment Tuition Fees are for the Administration of the Academy, modest by any D&s standards. You may also pay tuition fees via Amazon eGift Card, but this REQUIRES SPECIFIC INSTRUCTIONS.
Confidentiality for everyone ? Of course. Upon enrollment you will be given a new identity and a new confidential email address. Initial training is done by email and websites. No one will know your actual name, email address, or where you live. You will be assigned to a Trainer Domme (who seeks an FLR) and if that clicks, you will arrange subsequent training vehicles and venues with HER, as it should be.
So what is a Truelife &s FLR ? It is a Female Led Relationship. Truelife ? Yes, tethered or live-in. Not a mindless hook-up or idle play. Tethered? Yes, like an invisible leash. The sense of ownership is the same as live-in. As you well know, live-in is not possible for many boys (adult submales). Tethered includes In Person service and training when feasible and agreeable.
The major difference between Truelife and Play is that in Truelife "Submission is the boy's reality" and "play is how he conducts his allowed vanilla life"
About the Trainer Dommes - Most are Prime-age women (over 40) Wise women with cougar instincts, all looking for good boys for an FLR for the long haul of life (just as you should be). They are not employees, contractors, agents, etc of the Academy. They are all esteemed members of the the Domme Corps. They applied, seeking to benefit mentorship and comradery among the Domme Corps. They like to teach, and yes here they are allowed to "mess with the studsents" ! They teach and select boys for more at the same time. No hookers or scam artists here.
About the Curriculum: Extensive. First we explore your D&sDNA code - your inner instinctive needs and tendencies. There is a whole section on it, here on this site for your review now. There is a Quiz to gauge your suitability for the Academy, look for it here on the Site. As for the Training Lesson curriculum, there are more than 100 lessons for discussion between you and your Trainer Domme, including the OSODD Series and the IP (In Person) Series. All are designed to educate, jump-start exploration, and break down inhibitions.
Are you "Good Boy" material? TAKE THE QUIZ to find out.
We provide EDUCATION, EXPLORATION, and PURSUIT of the HAPPINESS of a D&s Truelife FLR. The Trainer Dommes are Prime-Age Dominant Women, all of whom seek Truelife D&s FLRs - both tethered and live-in - they form the Academy Domme Corps Faculty. The image above depicts the classic cycle for what we advocate, teach, and promote. Worldwide !
The other half of the equation is the adult male (typically 35 and older) whose inner compass leans to a need for Strong Feminine Authority- hence, an FLR, that is, a Female Led Relationship. Such males come from all walks of life and levels of education.
Truelife D&s FLRs are intended for the long term, long haul of remaining life!
Fine Women who have a natural need to lead and control - and males who need it. Refer to the image of the Basic Cycle of TrueLife.
Many are married, which is quite okay, and the older male is often the better one - because he knows his place. The male may have "played" before and even paid for kink sessions, but now he is ready for the reality of Long TermTruelife D&s FLRs, where the connection is a personal bond for the long haul of remaining life - or at least to learn about them.
All initial education and training is done by confidential identity and email. Prime-age dominant women are 40 and up, blessed with the wisdom of life experiences. Good women don't get older, they just get better.
Still not sure? TAKE THE QUIZ.
No, it is not. BDSM/D&s has different meanings for different folks.
For some it is just "play". For others it is sexual perversion that drives a male to pay for "scenes" of their choosing, that is, "to be done" as they request, they are the customer or "john" and the woman is the "service provider".
For "play", the relationships is one of "playmates", and "money" for the latter. By contrast, in a Truelife D&s FLR, there is a sense of belonging, and the relationship is a personal bond. D&s activities are truly acts of love and devotion, building on the boy's D&sDNA for the benefit of all.
Like the Marines, we are looking for "a few good boys". Maybe just like you. TAKE THE QUIZ?
The codes draw a road map of your inner core, deep down submissive traits, tendencies, and needs. We have recognized 10 basic traits, each identified with a single digit (0 thru 9).
When ranked greatest to least from left to right, the first nine form your code. Pictures and word descriptions to help you and your little friend determine your core needs - the ones that gnaw at you and just won't go away.
The Bondage Boy - needs the security of Bondage. Yes, the image is a girl, but don't you just wish it was you !
Never is the Bondage Boy so free, as when he is "placed on the hook".
Some say, "I have never experienced a greater freedom than what I feel on the hook and totally vulnerable to the firm but loving control of my OwnerDomme"
The Bad Boy - not really bad, just needs to "feel" her authority. Like the "Bondage Boy", he envies and identifies with any one being disciplined. For the Bad Boy, punishment is his redemption.
Can a "bad boy" be a "Good boy" both and at the same time ?
Myabe you should TAKE THE QUIZ.
The Sissy Boy - softness and femininity are seen in his dress and mannerisms. He seeks to honor women by emulating them.
Soft is the Sissy Boy.
The OSODD Boy - a slave to his own desires .. for more and more. The more he gets, the more he needs.Miss Matrix coined the phrase and developed the OSODD Training Regimen. .
The Mommie's Boy - he yearns for those apron strings, but the nipple is more than just symbolic. They represent the Magic Elixir of eternal youth.
The Bitch Dog Boy - its about loyalty, obedience, and much more .. gives rise to "The Bitch Dog Position". Yes, it does mean different things to different boys .. and Dommes.
Down boy, DOWN !
The Black Addict Boy - is addicted to Black FemPower for many reasons, the Power, the Taboo, the Historical juxtaposition, the racial guilt, and the screaming throbbing of his little friend. He transfers the "penis envy" of a white boy for the Black Stud to the Black Domme, and for good reason. Obeah, could this be you ?
The Chastity Boy - needs his sex locked away from his own abuse - the making of a cuckold. He loves to feel his the smallness of his little friend thrusting and struggling against the restraint. Locked Chastity makes everything better for this boy.
The House Boy - he honors the glory of womanhood by doing the work of the woman of yesteryear. If only he could be Mr. Clever scrubbing the floor with Beaver's mother, Mrs Clever standing over him.
The House Boy yearns to be a subhusband bride !
The Slut boy - totally guided by his need for sex, any sex. He is the classic FFCS (Forced Fem Cock Sucker).
What else can he be called ?
Needs the harsh control of an Owner.
The Code is 9 digits, we do not list the last or least trait of the ten types. Thus a code will look like 756-103-428 or 943-780-123, etc., etc. Consult your little friend down south as you review each code.
For Truelife Dommes, the Code is a statement of preferences.
Have you TAKEN THE QUIZ yet ?
Covers Academy confidentiality and philosophies - and brings the new Domme Corps member up to speed as SHE prepares to teach, train, select, take and use.
She seeks an FLR - tethered or live-in.
Might you, lady, be a good candidate for the Domme Corps, yourself?
Covers your new confidential identity, name, number, and new email address.
Dog Tags become your icon image in the Academy.
This is an exciting time, you are "Fresh Meat" on the Auction Block - and women bid on you to become your Trainer Domme. Although she bids, and Miss Matrix determines the winning bid, both boy and Trainer Domme must accept the assignment and either can opt out.
It is a bit like going to the SPCA pound and picking out a new pet, won't work unless there seems to be mutual appeal. If not we try again.
Education, primarily. Discuss the basic elements of FLR D& with your Trainer Domme. More than 20 lessons to learn about D&s, learn about yourself, and learn about your Trainer Domme. On completion, boy and Trainer Domme decide if he will enter the Transition Level. Otherwise, each looks for a new assignment. Sample lessons appear in the Appendix section.
Current Plan as of 03/05/2018
Lessons are dispensed by the Trainer Domme. The lessons are EDUCATION and the basis of a Training Dialog that will explore the boy's inner core, if not his very soul, bared to a Woman looking for a boy to own and use.
Focus is on the formation of an FLR. The lessons hone in on the actuality of an FLR between the boy and his Trainer Domme. Lessons and topics become more personalized, as both boy and Trainer Domme contemplate formation of a Truelife D&s FLR - where the boy is collared and owned - tethered at first, live-in later if feasible. If not formed, boy returns to the Auction Block.
You and your Starter Level Trainer Domme have agreed to enter the Transition Loop to see if an FLR might be in the works for the two of you. It may or may not happen, but we will all give it our best effort.
Now, the focus is on deepening the FLR just formed. Lessons include the 28 part OSODD Series - secrets revealed, and the boy prepared. Also included is a 14 part "First IP (In Person) Series. Additional lessons dig ever deeper into the boy's mind and inner core as we strive to make him the best boy possible.
Such a boy has only his own deepest, darkest desires to fear.
The FLR Level - Collared and Owned, Tethered or Live-in. This is the result of a successful Transition. Our purpose now is to deepen and solidify the new FLR. Your DC - your Owner Domme - will select from among the FLR lessons listed below, choosing them in whatever order she feels best benefits the FLR.
These are not scripts to be recited word for word or action for action. They are accounts of what has worked well for others.
He' not evil, he just needs to "feel" her authority.
Are you "Good boy" material?
FLR Lessons deepen the bond and become part of an incredible love story.