Building a community of Female Led Relationships - Tethered and Live-in.  


Building a community of Female Led Relationships - Tethered and Live-in.  


FREE - There is a D&s FLR LESSON in each issue, drawn from the vast curriculum of the Academy.  Learn what makes a boy (an adult submale) tick and lick.  Learn what a Prime-age Truelife Domme looks for when an FLR is her goal.  Part of the Education, Exploration, and Opportunities mission of the Academy.   It is FREE.

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Goddess Cerru runs the MEAT MARKET !



We have an Interactive forum to facilitate the Training of BOYS

If you are interested in becoming a member of the Academy Domme Corps, contact Miss Matrix at

Learn the basics of Truelife D&s   - train screened boys via email and website with whom you wish to  EXPLORE the formation of an FLR.  FLRs cannot for his EDUCATION, and then select those boys be purchased or arranged, they must develop - and we provide a fertile environment for that to happen !  FLRs can be Tethered or Live-in.   Tethered at first and can stay and flourish that way.   Total confidentiality for everyone in the First Level, the EDUCATION (or Starter Level).    

We have an Interactive Forum for enrolled participants to faciliate the Program - Profiles, Stables, Meat Market, Messaging, Lesson Curriculum, etc.  You may look at it now if you wish.  

The lesson curriculum is based on Miss Matrix's Truelife D&s philosophies.



Education * Exploration * Opportunity

What's it all about ..

Are you "Good Boy" material?  TAKE THE QUIZ to find out.

We provide EDUCATION, EXPLORATION, and PURSUIT of the HAPPINESS of a D&s Truelife FLR. The Trainer Dommes are Prime-Age Dominant Women, all of whom seek Truelife D&s FLRs - both tethered and live-in - they form the Academy Domme Corps Faculty. The image above depicts the classic cycle for what we advocate, teach, and promote. Worldwide !

The other half of the equation is the adult male (typically 35 and older) whose inner compass leans to a need for Strong Feminine Authority- hence, an FLR, that is, a Female Led Relationship.   Such males come from all walks of life and levels of education.  

Truelife D&s FLRs are intended for the long term, long haul of remaining life!   

Fine Women who have a natural need to lead and control - and males who need it.   Refer to the image of the Basic Cycle of TrueLife.

Many are married, which is quite okay, and the older male is often the better one - because he knows his place.  The male may have "played" before and even paid for kink sessions, but now he is ready for the reality of Long TermTruelife D&s FLRs, where the connection is a personal bond for the long haul of remaining life - or at least to learn about them.   

All initial education and training is done by confidential identity and email.  Prime-age dominant women are 40 and up, blessed with the wisdom of life experiences. Good women don't get older, they just get better.  

Still not sure?  TAKE THE QUIZ.


Is this for everyone ?

No, it is not.    BDSM/D&s  has different meanings for different folks.  

For some it is just "play".  For others  it is sexual perversion that drives a male to pay for "scenes" of their choosing, that is, "to be done" as they request, they are the customer or "john" and the woman is the "service provider". 

For "play", the relationships is one of  "playmates", and "money" for the latter.  By contrast, in a Truelife D&s FLR, there is a sense of belonging, and the relationship is a personal bond. D&s activities are truly acts of love and devotion, building on the boy's D&sDNA for the benefit of all.  

Like the Marines, we are looking for "a few good boys".  Maybe just like you.   TAKE THE QUIZ?

Semper Fem,  

Miss Matrix


About those "D&S DNA CODES"

The Codes, what are they?


The codes draw a road map of your inner core, deep down submissive traits, tendencies, and needs.  We have recognized 10 basic traits, each identified with a single digit (0 thru 9). 

When ranked greatest to least from left to right, the first nine form your code.  Pictures and word descriptions to help you and your little friend determine your core needs - the ones that gnaw at you and just won't go away.  


Code "0" The Bondage Boy


The Bondage Boy - needs the security of Bondage.   Yes, the image is a girl, but don't you just wish it was you !  

Never is the Bondage Boy so free, as when he is "placed on the hook". 

Some say, "I have never experienced a greater freedom than what I feel on the hook and totally vulnerable to the firm but loving control of my OwnerDomme"


Code "1" The Bad Boy


The Bad Boy - not really bad, just needs to "feel" her authority. Like the "Bondage Boy", he envies and identifies with any one being disciplined.   For the Bad Boy, punishment is his redemption.  

Can a "bad boy" be a "Good boy" both and at the same time ?  

Myabe you should TAKE THE QUIZ. 


Code "2" The Sissy Boy


The Sissy Boy - softness and femininity are seen in his dress and mannerisms.  He seeks to honor women by emulating them. 

Soft is the Sissy Boy. 


Code "3" The OSODD Boy


The OSODD Boy -  a slave to his own desires .. for more and more.  The  more he gets, the more he needs.Miss Matrix coined the phrase and developed the OSODD Training Regimen. .


Code "4" The Mommie's Boy


 The Mommie's Boy - he yearns for those apron strings, but  the nipple is more than just symbolic.  They represent the Magic Elixir of eternal youth. 


Code "5" The Bitch Dog Boy


The Bitch Dog Boy - its about loyalty, obedience, and much more .. gives rise to "The Bitch Dog Position".  Yes, it does mean different things to different boys .. and Dommes.  

Down boy, DOWN !


Code "6" The Black Addict Boy


The Black Addict Boy - is addicted to Black FemPower for many reasons, the Power, the Taboo, the Historical juxtaposition, the racial guilt, and the screaming throbbing of his little friend.   He transfers the "penis envy" of a white boy for the Black Stud to the Black Domme, and for good reason.  Obeah, could this be you ? 


Code "7" The Chastity Boy


The Chastity Boy -  needs his sex locked away from his own abuse - the making of a cuckold.   He loves to feel his the smallness of his little friend thrusting and struggling against the restraint.   Locked Chastity makes everything better for this boy.


Code "8" The House Boy


The House Boy  - he honors the glory of womanhood by doing the work of the woman of yesteryear.  If only he could be Mr. Clever scrubbing the floor with Beaver's mother, Mrs Clever standing over him.    

The House Boy yearns to be a subhusband bride !


Code "9" The Slut Boy


The Slut boy - totally guided by his need for sex, any sex.  He is the classic FFCS (Forced Fem Cock Sucker).   

What else can he be called ?

Needs the harsh control of an Owner. 


Summary of D&sDNA Code


The Code is  9 digits, we do not list the last or least trait of the ten types.  Thus a code will look like 756-103-428 or 943-780-123, etc., etc.   Consult your little friend down south as you review each code. 

For Truelife Dommes, the Code is a statement of preferences. 

Have you TAKEN THE QUIZ yet ?


About the Academy curriculum

Orientation for New Dommes



Covers Academy confidentiality and philosophies - and brings the new Domme Corps member up to speed as SHE prepares to teach, train, select, take and use.  

She seeks an FLR - tethered or live-in.

Might you, lady, be a good candidate for the Domme Corps, yourself?

Review the "Good boy" QUIZ, and see if you identify with "dominant woman" frequently referenced in the Quiz.     If so, you are.   Email Miss Matrix with your interest at      


Orientation for New Boys



Covers your new confidential identity, name, number, and new email address.

  1. 1.01 Stripping the Boy
  2. 1.02 Harnessing the Boy
  3. 1.03 Building your Profile
  4. 1.04 Academy Newsletter
  5. 1.05 Dog Tags
  6. 1.06 Collarspace 
  7. 1.07 Confession

Dog Tags become your icon image in the Academy.   


Trainer Domme Assignment



This is an exciting time, you are "Fresh Meat" on the Auction Block - and women bid on you to become your Trainer Domme.    Although she bids, and Miss Matrix determines the winning bid, both boy and Trainer Domme must accept the assignment and either can opt out. 

It is a bit like going to the SPCA pound and picking out a new pet, won't work unless there seems to be mutual appeal.   If not we try again.


Starter Level


Education, primarily.  Discuss the basic elements of FLR D& with your Trainer Domme.  More than 20 lessons to learn about D&s, learn about yourself, and learn about your Trainer Domme.   On completion, boy and Trainer Domme decide if he will enter the Transition Level.  Otherwise, each looks for a new assignment.    Sample lessons appear in the Appendix section.

Current Plan as of 03/05/2018 

Lessons are dispensed by the Trainer Domme.  The lessons are EDUCATION and the basis of a Training Dialog that will explore the boy's inner core, if not his very soul, bared to a Woman looking for a boy to own and use. 

  1. ST-01 E&O Requirements 
  2. ST-02 Submale's D&s History
  3. ST-03 The Bondage Boy (0)
  4. ST-04 The Bad Boy (code 1)
  5. ST-05 The Sissy Boy (code 2)
  6. ST-06 The OSODD Boy (3)
  7. ST-07 The Mommie's Boy ( 4) 
  8. ST-08 The Bitch Dog Boy ( 5)
  9. ST-09 The BlackAddict Boy(6)
  10. ST-10 The Chastity Boy ( 7)
  11. ST-11 The Houseboy (code 8)
  12. ST-12 The Slut Boy (code 9)
  13. ST-13 Erotic Shopping 
  14. ST-14 Learning to Hunt 
  15. ST-15 Worship and Oath 
  16. ST-16 The D&s REALationship 
  17. ST-17 The Vacuum of Power
  18. ST-18 Review/Graduation Gift
  19. ST-19 Decision Time  
  20. ST-20 Tuition Renewal 


Transition Level


Focus is on the formation of an FLR. The lessons hone in on the actuality of an FLR between the boy and his Trainer Domme.  Lessons and topics become more personalized, as both boy and Trainer Domme contemplate formation of a Truelife D&s FLR - where the boy is collared and owned - tethered at first, live-in later if feasible.   If not formed, boy returns to the Auction Block.

You and your Starter Level Trainer Domme have agreed to enter the Transition Loop to see if an FLR might be in the works for the two of you.    It may or may not happen, but we will all give it our best effort. 

  1. TL-01 The Transition Loop 
  2. TL-02 Bondage-Body & Mind 
  3. TL-03 Discipline for the boy 
  4. TL-04 Male Chastity in an FLR 
  5. TL-05 Draining the boy            
  6. TL-06 Ball Stretching
  7. TL-07 The Power of OSODD
  8. TL-08 The Basic Cuckold
  9. TL-09  A Boy may Lie, but  ...
  10. TL-10  Meaning of Good boy
  11. TL-11  Soft is the Sissy Boy        
  12. TL-12  The Magic Elixir 
  13. TL-13  The Punishment Kit       
  14. TL-14  Training Gear     
  15. TL-15  Erotic Shopping 
  16. TL-16  The D&s REALationship 
  17. TL-17  The Colony House
  18. TL-18   Feminine Authority
  19. TL-19  The D&s Contract            
  20. TL-20  The Tethering Decision      


The FLR Level


Now, the focus is on deepening the FLR just formed.      Lessons include the 28 part OSODD Series - secrets revealed, and the boy prepared.  Also included is a 14 part "First IP (In Person) Series.  Additional lessons dig ever deeper into the boy's mind and inner core as we strive to make him the best boy possible.   

Such a boy has only his own deepest, darkest desires to fear.

The FLR Level - Collared and Owned, Tethered or Live-in. This is the result of  a successful Transition.  Our purpose now is to deepen and solidify the new  FLR. Your DC - your Owner Domme - will select from among the FLR lessons listed below, choosing them in whatever order she feels best benefits the FLR.   

 These are not  scripts to be recited word for word or action for action. They are accounts of what has worked well for others. 

  1. FLR-01 Collared and Tethered
  2. FLR-02 Whipping the boy 
  3. FLR-03 The Humbler
  4. FLR-04 Discipline&Punsh'mnt
  5. FLR-05 IP and Stark Realities
  6. FLR-06 Mounting your Boy
  7. FLR-07 A Love Story
  8. FLR-08 Prepping for OSODD
  9. FLR-09 The Golden Moment
  10. FLR-10 Fifth Day the Sweetest
  11. FLR 11-38 The OSODD Series 
  12. FLR-39 The Shampoo Boy
  13. FLR-40 Owning his Backdoor
  14. FLR 41-54 The 14part IP Series 
  15. FLR-55 The Dildo was Real,pt1
  16. FLR-56 The Dildo was Real,pt2
  17. FLR-57 Ancient Amazonia, pt1
  18. FLR-58 Ancient Amazonia,pt2 
  19. FLR-59 A Fine Tuned Boy
  20. (more lessons to be added)


APPENDIX - Selected Lesson Excerpts

Excerpts from ST-04 "The Bad Boy"


He' not evil, he just needs to "feel" her authority.

Excerpts from TL-10 "The Meaning of Good Boy"


Are you "Good boy" material?


Excerpts from FLR Lessons OSODD and First IP Series


FLR Lessons deepen the bond and become part of an incredible love story.

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